RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison
Do you ever worry about your daughter losing her spark?
Are you unsure how to parent in this new tween or teen season without passing down your own insecurities or accidentally saying the wrong thing?
Maybe you’re watching her navigate anxiety, friendship drama, or even bullying, and you’re not always sure what to say, how to help, or when to step in. Parenting suddenly feels less physical and much more emotional, and you just want to stay connected while doing this stage right.
If you’ve ever thought, “I just want her to be herself and actually open up to me,” you’re in the right place.
Welcome to Raising Confident Teen Daughters, the podcast that helps you connect with your daughter so she can thrive.
Each week, you’ll learn practical, research-based ways to support your daughter through confidence dips, big emotions, friendship struggles, and the messy, beautiful work of growing up. We’ll talk about what to say in the hard moments, how to stay connected as she changes, and how to grow your own confidence as her mom.
I’m Kristen - former educator, confidence coach, and mom of three teen girls and one little boy. I know how heavy it can feel when your daughter is struggling. I’ve watched my own girls navigate this stage, and I’ve felt that same, “I don’t know what to do” panic so many moms feel.
For a long time, I did what came naturally - freaking out, giving advice, and trying to fix things when it all felt too big. But I learned that supporting her starts with slowing down, stepping back, and parenting with more calm and clarity, even when things feel hard.
Now, I help moms do the same.
If you want to feel more equipped, be able to respond with confidence, and stay deeply connected as your daughter grows, this podcast is for you.
So grab your drink, take a breath, and let’s walk this season together.
You’re not alone. And even through the hard times she can learn to thrive, with you by her side.
xo, Kristen
Learn - https://meanttobeme.org/
Connect - https://www.instagram.com/meanttobe.me/
Episodes

2 hours ago
2 hours ago
Do you ever feel like you’re constantly taking care of everyone else… and there’s nothing left for you?
In this episode, I’m sharing what being forced to slow down reminded me about self-care, what actually matters, and how to start showing up more intentionally as a mom.
xo, Kristen
🧡Want more support with this? Join me for my free Raising Confident Girls Workshop where I’ll walk you through simple ways to stay calm, confident, and connected with your daughter.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there! April 14th 10 AM Az/Pacific
Mentioned in this episode:
LifeScore - Full Focus Assessments
2026 Dream Planner Collection – Horacio Printing
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
Resources:
- Upcoming Local Workshop for Girls 4/11
- Local Summer Confidence Camp!
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

2 days ago
2 days ago
If your daughter is going through a hard season, I feel you. Whether she's been dropped by all of her "friends", anxiety has been taking over her life, she's struggling with body image, or something else... I want you to know that there's hope for better days ahead. Tune in to hear my story and how to support your daughter in the meantime.
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms - April 14th 10 AM Az/Pacific
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Resources:
- Upcoming Local Workshop for Girls 4/11
- Local Summer Confidence Camp!
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

7 days ago
7 days ago
If you’ve ever had one of those mornings with your daughter where everything escalates and nothing you say seems to be helping, this episode is for you.
Today I’m sharing a real-life look at what happened, what I’m reminding myself in these moments, and why learning to pause is one of the most important things we can do when emotions take over... for both our daughters and ourselves.
You’re not doing it wrong. This is part of the journey!
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms - April 7th 10 AM Az/Pacific
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Resources:
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Upcoming Local Workshop for Girls 4/11
- Local Summer Confidence Camp!
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Monday Mar 30, 2026
Monday Mar 30, 2026
If your daughter has ever said something negative about herself (or you’ve had a feeling she might be thinking it), this episode is for you.
Because one of the hardest parts of parenting girls is watching them struggle with how they see themselves… and not knowing how to help.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 things to remember when her confidence drops, and how to support her in a way that actually helps.
The best news? Confidence isn’t something she either has or doesn’t have... it’s something she’s building.
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms - April 7th 10 AM Az/Pacific
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Mentioned in this episode:
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Upcoming Local Workshop for Girls 4/11
- Local Summer Confidence Camp!
Resources:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Wednesday Mar 25, 2026
Wednesday Mar 25, 2026
Most of us just want our daughters to be happy… but what if that’s not actually the goal?
What if there's something even better?
In this episode, we’re talking about why emotional resilience matters more than happiness and how helping your daughter handle uncomfortable feelings builds true confidence.
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Mentioned in this episode:
- Fun video from Tangled to show your daughter
- Podcast series on emotional resilience starts here -
14 - Raising Resilient Girls P… - RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison - Apple Podcasts
Resources:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Monday Mar 23, 2026
Monday Mar 23, 2026
If your daughter struggles with anxiety, you may feel like her world is getting smaller. School, friendships, and even the things she once loved can start to feel overwhelming.
And as a mom, it can be both heartbreaking and exhausting to watch.
In this episode, I’m sharing from personal experience how to help support your daughter through anxiety while gently helping her build confidence and expand her world again.
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Mentioned in this episode:
Previous episodes on anxiety -
19 - Worried About Your Daught… - RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison - Apple Podcasts
67 - When Anxiety Shakes Her C… - RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison - Apple Podcasts
61 - When Helping Your Daughte… - RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison - Apple Podcasts
36 - Why Riding the Emotional … - RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison - Apple Podcasts
Resources:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Wednesday Mar 18, 2026
Wednesday Mar 18, 2026
As girls get older, connection can become more of a challenge. Life gets busier, conversations can feel shorter, they are spending more time with friends, and many moms find themselves wondering how to stay close in this new stage of parenting.
In this episode, I’m sharing why 1-on-1 time still matters more than we think, and 3 simple ways to make it count.
Inspired by research and a reminder I needed myself, this episode will encourage you to keep connection simple, intentional, and present.
xo, Kristen
Free Workshop for Moms
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
Can't wait to see you there!
Mentioned in this episode:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
Resources:
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Monday Mar 16, 2026
Monday Mar 16, 2026
Parenting tween and teen girls can feel surprisingly lonely.
When our kids were little, it felt so easy to talk openly with other moms about sleep struggles, feeding schedules, and tantrums. But as our daughters get older, many moms quietly find themselves navigating new challenges without the same level of support.
In this episode, we’re talking about why this can feel so isolating, and you’ll also hear a few gentle ways to start finding more support and connection as you figure out these years with your daughter.
Free Workshop for Moms
If you’re raising a tween or teen daughter and want practical tools to stay confident, calm, and connected during this stage, I’d love to invite you to my upcoming workshop:
Raising Confident Girls Workshop
In this free training, you’ll learn simple ways to support your daughter’s confidence while also feeling more grounded and confident in your parenting.
You can register here:https://meanttobeme.org/workshop
xo, Kristen
Mentioned in this episode:
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
Resources:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Wednesday Mar 11, 2026
Wednesday Mar 11, 2026
I saw a popular post on Instagram this week claiming a girl’s confidence window closes at age 12, and a lot of parents were scared.
If that’s true… what does it mean if your daughter is already 12, 14, or 16?
In this episode, we talk about what research actually says about girls’ confidence, why it often dips in the tween years, and why it’s not too late to help your daughter build her confidence. (Plus my favorite simple tips that make a big difference in her self-esteem!)
If you're here listening, you’re already doing the work!
xo, Kristen
Free Upcoming Workshop for Moms
Want to learn how to stay calm, confident, and connected with your daughter as you parent through the ups and downs of these years?
Join my free live workshop for moms of tween and teen girls.
Register here:The Confident & Connected Mom
Mentioned in this episode:
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
Resources:
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

Wednesday Mar 04, 2026
Wednesday Mar 04, 2026
Last week I was working on a new lesson for my course that asks moms to reflect on their own struggles as teenagers.
While I was thinking about some of my experiences, I ended up sharing a few of them with my daughters… and it turned into a really emotional and connecting moment I didn’t expect.
If you're navigating the ups and downs of raising a tween or teen daughter, this episode will encourage you to pause, reflect, and remember that connection often starts with understanding.
xo, Kristen
Mentioned in this episode:
One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching
Resources:
- Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters
- FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day
- My Confidence Course for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident
- Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%
- Connect with me on Instagram @meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!


